When you are about to get married, always remember that…
…you don’t only marry your partner
…you also “marry” the family from where he or she comes from
…you marry into each other’s family
…your partner comes as a package
…you cannot “siam” or “elak” or “bilis” the parents as much as your partner cannot “siam” or “elak” or “bilis” your parents
…your partner is a reflection of both his or her parents, which you may like or dislike
…both your parents and parents-in-law are two sets of different people who have created two sets of family beliefs, values, behaviours and cultures
…the family beliefs, values, behaviours and culture of both sides may or may not compatible with one another, despite both families being part of the same race, language and religion
…you have to manage expectations of and relationship with not only your partner, but also those of and with your own parents and parents-in-law
Because your parents and parents-in-law can make or break your marriage.
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